When I first set foot in Tokyo, I felt like I'd stepped into an entirely different world. Coming from the vibrant streets of Nairobi, I was used to a different kind of rhythm, one that felt personal and familiar. But Tokyo, with its dizzying blend of modern technology and deep-rooted tradition, offered something that I quickly learned couldn’t be described in a guidebook—it had to be felt.
My first real challenge was the language barrier. Japanese, with its complex characters and layered meanings, felt like learning to walk all over again. Basic phrases like “arigatou” and “sumimasen” (thank you and excuse me) were my lifelines at first, but I quickly realized that even a basic effort to communicate in Japanese opened doors. I learned that humility and a genuine willingness to understand could bridge a lot of gaps. Most Japanese people are incredibly patient and respectful when they see you’re trying, even if you’re stumbling over words. There’s a kind of silent encouragement in these exchanges that helped me push through and learn a little more each day.
As I started settling into life here, I found that routines I’d taken for granted back home had different meanings in Japan. Take greetings, for instance. A firm handshake back in Kenya was second nature, but in Japan, bowing is the standard—a symbol of mutual respect. At first, it felt awkward, but over time I learned to appreciate the mindfulness it encouraged, a chance to pause and acknowledge each person I encountered.
The adjustment didn’t end there. Joining KIJA, I met other Kenyans who had gone through similar experiences, each of them with their own story of adaptation and growth. Together, we found ways to celebrate Kenyan traditions and make Japan feel a little more like home. In many ways, connecting with fellow Kenyans gave me the balance I needed; it was grounding to know that I could bring my culture with me while still embracing this new one.
For anyone considering the move or just starting out here, my advice is simple: stay open. Japanese culture has layers, and it may take time to fully understand them, but every effort to connect, to learn a little more of the language, and to reach out to others makes the experience so much richer. And remember, you’re not alone—there’s a community here ready to welcome you, share stories, and make the journey feel shared.
Living in Japan has taught me to see beyond the surface and appreciate the details that make a place unique. Each challenge brought with it an opportunity to grow, and each new connection added another thread to the vibrant tapestry of this experience.